My favourite quote from Wolverine

It's like somebody shot a cannonball right through your stomach leaving a great big hole. Eventually it starts close up from the outside in and one day it'll be different, the load won't feel as heavy, then you'll hear a song or somebody will laugh or the wind will blow the wrong way and the hole will tear right open again. Believe it or not it heals back faster each time a death isn't like losing a job or getting divorced you don't get over it, you have to integrate it into your life learn to live with it. But... life does get better