Roleplays from my side of the screen

Hello yes this may be some sort of rant but it's just me writing my thoughts down. When I find somepony to roleplay with, or anybody in general, not only in this fandom, I always wish we could have a plot that we both share in common and work off correct ground. Or you try to nudge them in the right direction, hinting, but they don't really get it and then they change the story completely, or you have a cool story plot and you try and use it in a roleplay, but it doesn't work out like you envisioned. I don't know, it's just the little things about it that really get to me, don't get me wrong, I love to roleplay, like, alot, but sometimes I wish I knew I how to do things better. As for the people that I have ever roleplayed with, I don't mean to offend you one single bit, it's just something that I really had in my mind lately.