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Aether on January 21, 2026

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Did this happen to anyone else or just me? Btw I was like 15 when I first came out. I had people threaten to come find me irl and do horrendous things to me :)

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Iridescent_Edge

That sounds horrible. Unfortunately, I fail to relate as a cisgender heterosexual… :(

Like 1 January 22, 2026

Aether

Tbh it also works with "a man, just existing (peacefully)" and "man-hating women". its similar to the men that get extremely gross about women, in a way. Both sides are.. really gross. I hate this divide and all this hatred.

Like 1 January 22, 2026

Wolfbane

And it be those mfers who can barely afford a McDonalds combo. Talking about coming to find someone, ooooo~

Like January 22, 2026

Wolfbane

For the many surgeries of my ‘deformities’ what my doctors refer to it as. Remember in college someone threatened me for it. which I was more than welcome to invite a beatdown of self-defense if it came to it. That was damn near 7 years ago LMAO. Guess the dementia onset for them.

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Nar Yakushi

I never understood how people can hate someone just for being who they are. Brother. I'm a heterosexual, Caucasian male with a christian upbringing, and I say 'you do you'. If someone does something that makes them happy, and isn't actively hurting others, why do you care? It's not that hard to just... View More

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Iridescent_Edge

I agree.

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Aether

people who claim to be christian or similar but actively go against the teachings are so funny to me. But also sad. Like, wow you really don't have any other problems in life so you need to make something up to be mad about. My partner and his family are Mormon but not the kind that uses it as an ex... View More

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Brady Thunderfoot

I can't speak to the trans bit, but I do have my own stories of man-hating. My own mother was abused as a kid from her father and brother, so of course she sometimes takes it out on me. Tries not too, only comes out when she gets very worked up about something, but it still polks through. Questioned... View More

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Aether

!'ve been literally physically and mentally abused by men since the moment I was born, like s_xual abuse and grooming as well. Sure, I now feel absolutely disgusted at the thought of being seen as a woman thanks to that, but I never went down the man-hating route because a lot of my very best friend... View More!'ve been literally physically and mentally abused by men since the moment I was born, like s_xual abuse and grooming as well. Sure, I now feel absolutely disgusted at the thought of being seen as a woman thanks to that, but I never went down the man-hating route because a lot of my very best friends are men and it really is not every man. Enough men to cause issues but, yeah. Like I can see why a bunch of women hate men. I can also see why men say some women are disgusting vipers, because they are and I've seen it myself. I've had women threaten to r__e me and then lie about it when I didn't do what they wanted. Or women, unaware of me being trans, threatening to literally baby-trap me (when I was still a minor too btw). Both sides are just full of really disgusting and gross people. I hope that one day men and women can band together to take down disgusting people, to try and stop this cycle of abuse. I feel for your mother, I really do. I know what its like to be assaulted (in both ways) by family. My mother still chooses to prioritize him over me, and then lies about it and how I'm her favorite. It#s just easier for her than confronting the reality that she did nothing about it and swept it under the rug, exactly how it was done to her (she used me as a therapist for several years in my teens and told me about her own abuse.) I'm so grateful I can therapy myself, because I had to learn it since its so hard for others to deal with EVERYTHING that has happened to me. They never know where to even start to unravel it all, so I do it myself. I'm just happy I can finally be open about these things without being called a freak and an abomination and "put together out of parts like frankenstein's monster" (the irony of that one isnt lost on me, since the monster was misunderstood and then violated. If I remember correctly). I'm glad to hear your mother can at least apologize and reflect. it's too late for that for my own. After something mine pulled on christmas, I realized she really will never change and that she doesn't need me in her life, and doesnt care to make an effort to have me in it.I've been reflecting on a lot of stuff since, but, you know it's like standing in a big empty warehouse that was once full of reasons and excuses. Eventually you just run out. I hope all the best for you and your mom. I hope she can get better and find, at the very least, some semblance of peace.her head must be very loud, ik what thats like and it sucks.

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